I really don't know who to talk to about this other than you guys on this site. So, sorry if I seem a bit angry or anything. I just needed to get this out.
About a month ago, my husband and I got our yearly phone call about life insurance. (His dad goes through this company and wanted us to do the same.) So they make an appointment for us to come to our home and get all of our information, like they did last year. The day comes and they come over, surprisingly a bit late so I had to leave and go to work. They took my info/spit sample etc. really quick and I left. My husband did talk to them about my fun liver problems and of course they felt bad. He sent me a text when they left and said everything went fine. Good. So a couple of days later, he gets a call on his phone and gives me this strange look. After he gets done with asking what day I had off and what time worked for him, he hangs up and tells me that it was the insurance company again. This time they want to come over and talk about terminal life insurance. I was completely shocked. I just said to him NO! I started to cry and said I will never talk to them about that. I told him that he could talk to them but I would not. I went on to explain that I am accepting this whole thing with my liver and I am trying to stay as positive about it as I can. This would just turn me around and make me feel like I am dead. He did feel bad after I explained all of it him. I just said, with my liver maybe I should get a plot as well? I mean if I am going to talk about stupid terminal life insurance I may as well get everything now just to have it done. Give up and just not do anything but sit around and feel sorry for myself. Well, he did not like that. (I wonder why.....) When the night before came, they called again and he cancelled. I felt a little better. I did apologize to him and he did the same. Said he was not thinking.
I mean, I am really trying to stay positive about all of this. I understand that this company is just trying to make money, but please. I was only diagnosed for 6 months and already I feel like I was thrown to the hounds.
But thank you for reading this. I feel a lot better in telling someone about this. It really bothers me that people/companies do not think.